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3/52: Saturdays and solitude

*This is part of my 52 Saturdays Project

There was a point in my life when being alone made me crazy; times when I made it a point to be surrounded by people whether I knew them or not. Good for me, those days are gone. And now that I’ve come to acknowledge solitude as a gift, I welcome it with a huge smile on my face and a long, exaggerated, happy sigh. Thank God for Saturdays. And solitude.

Two Saturdays ago, I spent my alone-time studying and marveling at the book of Ephesians, in preparation for that message I had the privilege of sharing at our church last February 19. Ephesians is beautiful (not to mention cheesy), you know? Go, read it and see for yourself! :)

A clean house, a cup of coffee, some vanilla oreos, and a solid, quality time with God’s Wordit was another happy Saturday for me!

Do you feel it too, when something BIG is about to happena new adventure looming in the horizon? Time spent in solitude, they say, prepares us for changes and challenges that are about to come our way. My husband and I don’t know what our new adventure is going to be exactly, and when, and how, but something inside me is feeling giddy and restless these days. In a good, bring-it-on-Lord kind of way. :)

Married Life

1/52: Saturday is errands day

*This is part of my 52 Saturdays Project

I have work Mondays to Fridays, and Sundays are spent in church, so Saturday becomes my obligatory errands day. Husband has classes on these days; and while I’m a little bummed about him not being around on the only whole day of the week I get to spend at home, I have to admit, the solitude is also good for me. (Truth is, I feel like I can accomplish more house chores when he’s not around. Hah!)

So I try to do as much as I can while he’s in school,

until he comes home from school to have lunch with me.

After lunch, he leaves again for his afternoon classes.

I like keeping our door open and letting a little sunshine in when I’m cleaning the house. One Saturday, while I was busy dusting off shelves in the living room, husband’s cat found its way inside our bedroom.

I took photos because it was a cute little moment, and because I wanted to show the husband what his cat, Ashley, was up to. After that, the cat was grounded, and you bet that’s the last time he would ever see the light of day get inside our bedroom. Sorry, kitty.

Husband wants to make our cat grow this fat, Ashley’s face seems too tiny! I read somewhere that siamese cats are naturally thin and skinny, is that true? I don’t like cats, but I like giving in to my husband’s interests. He’s adorable when he’s into something, and I’m a helpless wife who just couldn’t resist. So please help me make my husband happy.. how can we make this cat fat?

I’m serious.

Anyway, I’m excited for Saturdays! One down, 51 more. This is bound to be fun.

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On Christmas traditions, Sendong typhoon victims, and being still

Exactly a month ago, we put together our little Christmas tree at home, and I think I may have said I was “excited” to post more photos. So much for my excitement. The month has been packed with so many things, and uploading these photographs was the first to be pushed down my list! Anyway, here they are, for traditions’ sake.

It’s our first Christmas as husband and wife, and I love that we get to start our own Christmas traditions. Last year, I had some instax photographs up on my Christmas tree, and this year, we thought we’d do the same. We picked some of our favorite photographs from the wedding and the honeymoon and printed them out with our Polaroid Pogo. It’s a cute little project, something we hope we can keep on doing for years to come.

On another note, I know it has been a challenge for our country to celebrate Christmas this year when Cagayan de Oro and Iligan City are still under the state of calamity. We don’t have a television at home, and quite honestly, my husband and I have only seen and heard so much. I know we’ll never really have a clear picture of what’s happening out there, but our family feels somehow involved. My eldest brother is there since last week; as part of his job, he’s with the ABS-CBN Engineering Crew which covers the relief operations there. It’s our first Christmas Day without him, probably even New Year too. Ergo, we had to let go of certain Christmas traditions this year to make way for my brother to be where he’s needed more.

I look at Ate Imy (my sister-in-law) and Isaac and I imagine how difficult it must be for them to celebrate Christmas without Kuya. But then I think about the thousands of families in Cagayan de Oro and Iligan who lost their loved ones and friends over the flash flood, and how devastating Christmas and New Year must be like for them. As I stare at our Christmas tree here at home, my heart goes out to the victims of Sendong who lost their homes and didn’t get the chance to put up their trees this year. At the time of this writing, the death toll has reached about 1,500. This is even more tragic than Ondoy.

Suddenly, no personal issues or problems are too big.

It’s easy to question the goodness of God at a time like this, but words from the Bible pop up like bright stars in the dark sky: “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:9) God sees everything in a bigger perspective, and as far as His grand scheme of things is concerned, everything happens for a reason and for our own good. His ways are higher, we only have to be still and know that He is God (Psalm 46:10)—and believe that with all our hearts.

For the rest of us who are not in the center of this tragedy and are watching this from a distance, it’s our chance to help and make a difference. I’m not directly connected with any relief efforts for Sendong, but I think the surest way for our donations to reach Cagayan de Oro and Iligan is through Red Cross. We have 2 more days left before 2011 ends, let’s make it count.